Your friends, Your Family and Your Life

A friend of mine, Danial once told me something interesting about life,

He said, 'Life is something that can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards'.

Sad memories, fond memories, we have to move on and maybe that's the way of Life.

Maybe we couldn't 4gt about smtg and felt sorry or awful about that. Still, it WAS over already, past-tense,*poof*, history, gone. So next time, if you ever feel sad when regaling on the past, think in a more positive way; If you'd made a terrible mistake and you felt sorry about that, just put it one side and tell yourself, dun do it again. The best way to solve any problem would be, SOLVE the problem not DENY the existence of the problem itself. How to solve it? Thousands, millions, billions of ways! Still, why people still prefer to DENY it by simply commit suicide?

Newton's third law
Every action has a reaction acting in an opposite direction but with a same magnitude.

In this senario, Every problem has its own solution. What matters is whether you are choosing the right way to solve it or not.

My advice would be, whenever u feel lost or down, juz calm urself, have some sweet lovely dessert. Dun think of it 1st, after sobbing or wetting rolls of tissues later, find someone 2 listen 2 your words. Remember just LISTEN, dun call your friend to give any advice 1st. Why? A good listener is always a good speaker, ur friend's advice can be wrong.If it's wrong, anything happens on you, d blame goes on him/her. 2nd reason would be, u would eventually figure out the solution by ur own.

Frankly speaking, friends with good advices are rare. Not to say no, but rare. :) Seeking advice from your friends is not a good idea, if u want advice, your own parents would be the best. No matter how busy or how ignorants they are, whatever they do 4 you, it's always the best. Come on, I believe you always saw this in TV drama rite? 16-year-old teenager. regardless on gender, always go against their parents, ended up hanging up with bad friends, at the end involved in drugs, sex or etc, bla bla bla, police operation got arrested, friends ran away, ended in jail. Who visited them? FRIENDS? Unless they got caught too, in the jail, with that said person. Then, there goes the," dad, mum, I'm so sorry" dialogue. Not forgetting the tears and hugs. Haha.
For that very second, you would actually feel, grateful to your parents. Admit it, I mean 'for that nano-second', sure got a wee bit.

Remember this, human is a selfish-being, included your friends or your beloved, everything they do for you, there must b a reason.

"Every action has a reaction, every reaction has a reason." :)

Family? They are much more, less selfish to each other.